4/20
Name: @babeinthecity
So I guess I'll start here. I am not going into so much detail. It is my first time to do anything like this but heck I'll give it a try... I married pretty young, and now I am 19 with a kid and a husband I am not really contented with. Don't get me wrong, I love my kid--best thing that's ever happened to me.. But there are days that I just stare out into space and wonder, can my life get any better than this?
Advice:
Hello @babeinthecity.
I understand where you are coming from. And honestly speaking, if I could just rewind time, I bet you will be with me when I say that it would have probably been better if you waited more. Having a kid isn't a bad thing.. But the commitment that comes along with being a mother is already a lifetime. You feeling like this is totally normal. I'll give you the credit in the world, because just because you decided to keep the baby means you are strong. You are stronger than you think! That being said, ofcourse things will get so much better for you. Just remember that you NEED to keep moving forward. And from now on, you have to sacrifice more for YOU and your child if your husband wont. If you see that you are not going anywhere with him, then leave him and take matters into your own hands. You have your family and friends that can back you up. Don't be afraid to try new things and ask for help. Do better for YOU, do better for your daughter. It may be a little to early to say this, but it's time to become a woman. Life WILL get better. Keep looking for jobs, build your skills/experience and resume. Being a mom doesn't have to be boring. Be a sexy mom! Fix up, play with your kid, be a kid yourself, go out once in a while, decorate your kid's room. That's how I see things will get better for you. Have fun on the journey on becoming a mom, start a scrap book/journal and see how much you improve just by changing your perspective about your situation. Because moping isn't going to get you anywhere!
Xo
4/20
Name: @ninjuhs4evuh
I think this is how this is supposed to work right? Testing testing. Okay so I think this is good.
Uhhhh so I like this girl, and things have escalated quickly between us.. We've been having
great sex, you know? But she's moving away soon and I am really scared to lose her. She's
become more of a drug to me than anything else. I think I'm falling inlove, help?
Advice:
Hello @ninjuhs4evuh,
Well from what I see it, the girl is playing your game with you. I think that what you were looking for was a mere hook-up, but then you saw something past her physical body that you liked and so you are starting to fall for her.. First of all, you need to ask her what she feels about you. Just because she is having sex with you doesn't mean that she loves you, or maybe that or it just means that you are really great in bed. Just ask her where you guys stand. I can pretty much say that long distance relationships do not work, atleast 90% of the time. But if you guys have a decision to make that really starts with just sitting down, putting sex aside and finding out, are you just hook up friends or something more.. From there I'll be able to help you with more.